I've done it! I finally decided on a location for our wedding. I never would have thought it'd be such a difficult decision. The biggest issue is that we are in HK while everyone we'd want at our wedding is in Canada (as well as a few other random countries, I guess). Our holidays are rigid. Trying to find a time and place that the majority of our loved ones could attend was pretty much impossible unless we waited a couple more years. I'm sure you all know how many times I changed my ideas.... pretty much every two weeks or so.
Finally we decided that if we couldn't have all of our number one loved ones there, we may as well not have anyone there. Besides, with just a few guests, I'd feel like they were invading my honeymoon.
I'd thought of Fiji long ago, but it was always too expensive. Then I found hotels.com. Forgive me if I sound like a commercial here, but I think it's great (as long as everything goes according to plan, that is). We've booked 18 nights, 3 resorts, 2 islands, domestic and international flights. Now I'm just trying to decide which of our resorts to have the wedding at. Legal weddings are easy in Fiji. A passport and birth certificate are all we'll need, and we can have a ceremony within 3 days of arrival.
Oh, and FYI, Brian just handed over his credit card and agreed to everything I suggested. He's pretty excited about it too, though.